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When Your Kids Are Athletes, Life Shifts

Mar 27, 2015

Looking back over the last eight years, I realize I’ve put tens of thousands of miles on my cars. I’ve worn through two sets of snow tires, at least three sets of snow cables, and bottle after bottle of anti-freeze windshield washer liquid. I’ve learned to keep blankets, towels, shovels, lighters, lanterns, water and...

Living In Between Love and Fear

Mar 6, 2015

“…the Outside had taught him that there wasn’t much difference between loving someone and being afraid of them. Loving a person meant needing them to stay: alive, around. But the shadow that love can’t help but cast is fear: fear they won’t stay alive or around–fear they’ll be reckless, or doomed, or just walk...

Kindness Matters

Feb 21, 2015

Six months ago, I wrote an essay about my son’s injury at Mt. Hood. I called it “Broken”, and you can read the original piece here. It was hard for me to write; I was going through some emotional times during the summer, and, as with any time a parent sees their child injured,...

Real Love In Real Life

Feb 16, 2015

I haven’t read Fifty Shades of Grey or any of the sequels. I don’t plan on seeing the movie, and I’m getting tired of all the media hype. Watching women coo and drool and act like what is depicted on those pages and projected on the screen is real love in real life is making...

A Long-Ago Valentine’s Day

Feb 13, 2015

  View image | My sweet husband and I have been together for just short of 30 years…it’s kind of amazing, isn’t it? We met when we were just out of high school, and have weathered life from punks to parenthood. You don’t manage to stay with the same partner without learning a...

The Right To Die

Jan 24, 2015
The Right To Die

In 2011, two of my friends were diagnosed with brain cancer. One died six months later. One is still living. Both suffered through the debilitation of brain cancer, the rattling of their lives, and the realization that their life was terminal. Both were too young to have the hammer of disease pummel their lives....

Please, Don’t Go Outside

Jan 20, 2015
Please, Don’t Go Outside

“…the border between the Inside and the Outside wasn’t as impermeable as she liked to believe, and he knew that sooner or later, the Outside would want in.” ~from If I Fall, If I Die by Michael Christie Today I planted tulips and pansies Outside, yanking out the weeds and cutting back debris I’d...

Can You See Me Aging?

Jan 17, 2015
Can You See Me Aging?

Aging is not ‘lost youth’ but a new stage of opportunity and strength. Betty Friedan It’s a winter Saturday morning, dreary and grey and bare. Outside my window I look down on my garden; the trees bare, branches arcing and cascading with delicate, raw beauty. The rose bushes are pruned, the soft flesh of...

Friday Photo: Grown Don’t Mean A Thing

Jan 10, 2015
Friday Photo: Grown Don’t Mean A Thing

“Grown don’t mean nothing to a mother. A child is a child. They get bigger, but grown? What’s that supposed to mean? In my heart it don’t mean a thing.” ~ from Beloved by Toni Morrison Life changes when one of your children moves out of the house. Yes, the obvious things sting at...

A Year of Change and Possibilities: September, October, November & December 2014

Dec 31, 2014
A Year of Change and Possibilities: September, October, November & December 2014

September came and went with two freshmen living in two states – an official emptiness in our home. I made friends with a great new author and read some terrific books. Cameron turned 15, and continued to heal his broken leg and dashed dreams. I was finally able to write about the change in...

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